Apeulo

ADULTING TIPS SERIES #1

What you feed is what you get.

I had this conversation with a colleague, and she asked me “why am I still single?” Now this one of the most asked questions when your in your 20’s. The hell do we really know why?

And so I answered that my past almost relationships, it’s either it never worked out or that its complicated and all sort of good reason to why am I still single. And she looked at me bluntly. Replied with just 3 words that really striked me. “Hinahayaan mo kasi.”

My whole perspective about having a relationship just turned 360 degrees. Yes that was truly right! It’s sad to think that I have been tolerating things from my past relationship or to anyone in general just because I was afraid of losing them or just to get a good face out of it. But at the end of the day, it was me who suffers from all the unhealthy and toxic things that I’ve been tolerating and it keeps happening again and again cos’ they thought that it’s fine and you urge yourself to believe it too. Now, it might have been late for me to realize this but we must really love ourselves enough to evaluate what are the thing that we allow in our lives, because eventually that would be the cause as to why this is your current state or that could still happen to your future.